Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Responding to the Comments....

So I went to response to Suga and Sunshinestar on my last post, but realized that it turned into a mini blog, so here it is as a post of its very own.

I have no idea what Obama is doing, and I'm honestly trying not to think about it. After losing the first blog I wrote, I was so peeved that I left a few things out in the one that got posted. For starters, I did ask him what was up with all of the newfound QT and he told me that he just needed time to be on his own and he wouldn't be living with her anymore. I also asked how long I'd have so much attention and instead of answering me he said "What you don't want me around?". I know it was a stall tactic, but instead of pursuing it further I made the decision at that moment to just continue playing my position and be happy with the time I had instead of spending it worrying about when it would end. My bestie, "T" and I were talking one morning while he was still asleep and she asked me why I wasn't in the room snuggled up under him instead of on the couch talking to her. My automatic response with absolutely NO hesitation was "I don't love them hoes" and she knew exactly what I meant. Obama and I get along great together and, if we had pursued "us" when we first met, I could possibly be the lucky girl with his child that he lives with and cheats on. But alas, that was not in the cards. Now that we are in this....thing....that we are were? in, I know he and I will never have a relationship and I don't want that. However, since selfishness is ingrained in me, what I do want is for him to be able to come to me when I need/want him to. *shrugs* But it is what it is


Also, the night that he dropped by I told him that he was "inconvenient" and had a lot of baggage. IDK if that has anything to do with his ghost act lately, but hey...you just never know

More likely than anything else, he moved back in, however, that's never stopped him from calling me or texting me before, even when his phone was out of commision for awhile. In fact, yesterday I checked my voicemails and I had one from him from like a month ago (I don't check vmails often at all...clearly) and it was during the time that his phone was broken and he left me his...excuse me, their house number to call him. Like I've said before, he sucks at knowing the rules to having a sidepiece. I know where he lives AND the telephone number to reach him and his girl if I so choose to. Luckily for him, I truly have better things to do and our limitations were made clear early on...otherwise...shit would get real ugly real quick. lol


As for Street Fighter- I think he's just so dumb, he forgot that we weren't kicking it anymore. lol

5 comments:

khaki la'docker said...

I always thought that when dudes did shit like give out their home number it was almost like they wanted to be caught so that they wouldnt have to tell on themselves. smh @ him not knowing the rules.

Ms. Jones said...

IDk what his thought pattern on that one is, but he needs to be more careful and be damn glad that I am more mature than I was say....a year ago. Truth be told, I don't need ANY info fed to me in order to find what I'm looking for. Trust me, my investigative skils rival that of the CIA, FBI and DEA combined. lol. The rules are established for a reason, if I can play by them, why come he can't even learn them??? lol

jazzyjaz said...

The home number though?!? Boo definitely has to get himself the sidepiece hand book because that has to be rule #1

and selfish is probably my middle name I don't blame you for only wanting him around on your time, Dudes do that shit all the time.

Ms. Jones said...

Yep, the home number. SMH...

Yea, dudes do do it all the time, but when you tell them that's what you want they get all appalled at you using them. Whet the fuck ever! lol

suga said...

My bad. My memory sucks. Ya'll were spending so much time together, that I forgot you were the side piece.

THE HOME PHONE THOUGH? He need to be put on blast just for being stupid lol